"She is such a b***h", he said. Now, Arun was not someone given to using foul language, but he did, on this occassion. I'd been in the same situation once and knew he must hurt. As I sipped on my Blue Granita in a comfy coffee shop, I looked at Arun and thought "It will be ok...the first time always hurts the most".

She was also an aquaintance of mine.5 Feet 5, unimaginably fair,brown hair,deep brown eyes and always well dressed, with matching footware and ear rings to boot.She was what a guy would call a "good catch". Arun though was not a "player". He did not believe in playing the field, going out with a million girls at the same time. He believed in a utopian concept called "love".

She did not share his beliefs though.

Here he was, telling me, how "his girl" used to go out with other guys, frequent pubs, had atleast two relationships going at the time and was still in touch (romantically) with her very first boyfriend.With all of this happening she'd tell him how much she loved him.....It did not take too much of an effort to see the pain in his eyes. He'd stumbled upon her other "friends" and had called the relationship of over a year off.

"Never fall for a good looking girl.Thay have way too many options, they are human, and they definately give all options a shot". I must admit i agreed with him, although I never was in the same position, I did come pretty close to his state of affairs.

"Sometimes..", he said,"..it's better to find an ordinary looking girl, who will give you all her love and respect you for what you are, not what you have in the bank or what's in your pants".

I concurred.